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The Magic Connection Tool

By Elizabeth Cottrell

I was reminded today of a powerful connection tool that’s easy to use and absolutely free: the pen and small notepad. I first was impressed by the use of this simple, low-tech tool years ago when used by Warren B. French, Jr., retired President of Shentel and an international leader in the telecommunications industry. He always carries a little spiral notepad in his pocket, and if you ask a question or say something he wants to follow up on, he writes it down, and by golly, you’ll get a response within 48 hours. I’ve seen other people use small index cards equally effectively.

Today I was in The Market in Woodstock (a gem of a market that carries quality foods, health foods, and unique country gifts, as well as local foods and crafts) when its owner, Rich Church, came in. Rich is one of those warm, friendly people who has a real gift for making others feel special.  When he asked how my business was going, I knew he was really interested, because as I told him about this new venture and blog, he asked questions to get more details. And then he used the magic connection tool…he walked around the counter to get a pencil and notepad so he could write down the name of my website.

Our whole exchange took less than five minutes, but I can assure you that that one action on his part — writing down my website’s URL — made the difference between a polite conversation and a meaningful connection…between talking and engaging. I left feeling affirmed, and I made a mental note to myself to use this magic tool more often myself, whether I’m talking to friends or business associates.

And where do you think I’m most likely to shop the next time I need a product that The Market carries?

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  1. Elizabeth Cottrell says

    June 9, 2010 at 9:04 pm

    Thanks for visiting and your great comment, Rich…which proves that not only are you a good connector, but you follow through!

    I am convinced that it is the accumulation of small things in life that make a big difference: the smile, the handshake, the attentive ear…all free, but worth millions when liberally dispensed!

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  2. Rich Church says

    June 9, 2010 at 5:31 pm

    Elizabeth-
    We did make a connection the otherday and the proof is in this note! Thinking the world of you and wanting to better understand what you are up to, I went to your website, read a few articles and then clicked on your Blog, I think the second time I have ever had a interest in a Blog! Lo and behold, I began reading about Warren
    French, a man I respect and the man who hired me to work at Shentel, followed up by our meeting at The Market. Yes, I wrote down the address and had every intention of learning more. What a beautiful surprise! We surely made a connection which I feel has even strengthened our relationship as a result of our short conversation. Life is good and I wish you all the success in this new endeavor.

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I am a freelance writer, ghostwriter, and blogger called to encourage readers to strengthen the bonds of faith, family, and friends and to cultivate the joy and impact of personal, handwritten notes and letters. More Info.

 
 
 
 
 
 

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