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These reflections and resources are for those who seek to find their ideal life partner or who wish to strengthen the relationship they have with their partner or spouse.

When is a Gift NOT a Gift?

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This is a guest post from Connection Messenger Sarah Anma. I am grateful for her wisdom in helping her readers and clients make important life connections in a meaningful way. This is a thought-provoking piece that will help you get in touch with your own giving motives, whether your gift is a physical one or [...]

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The Need for Drama

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Welcome to guest blogger and Relationship Mentor, Sarah Anma. When I read the words “We don’t need drama. We need connection,” I knew this was something to share with my Heartspoken readers. ============================== When we think rationally, we would never say out loud that we “need” drama. In fact, most people would state that they [...]

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When does Giving become Giving too Much?

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This may seem like a strange topic for someone who is passionate about learning to make and cultivate important Connections, but the cold hard truth is that all of our important connections with other people should also have boundaries. If you are someone who loves to do things for others, even when you don’t expect [...]

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Valentine Reflections from Heartspoken.com

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Happy Valentine’s Day to my dear readers! I confess to having mixed feelings about this holiday, primarily because it has been so shamelessly commercialized and thereby trivialized. I can only imagine what a painful day it is for those who are alone or who have suffered recent losses. Since this is a blog about Connection, [...]

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More housework, more sex…who knew?

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I am not kidding (but I read it twice to make sure it was for real). According to a recent study of almost 7,000 married couples1, when husbands and wives both do work around the house, the likelihood of having sex together is increased. Possible reasons? They’re spending more time together. Their work signals a [...]

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Self-Confidence: the natural aphrodisiac

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Introducing Connection Messenger: Sarah Anma Sometimes we women just try too hard when it comes to romantic relationships. I’ve had friends and loved ones who found themselves single at an age when it seems harder to find a good match. The biological clock is ticking, and without considerable emotional maturity and a rich support network [...]

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Revive the Art of Personal Note-Writing!

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NOTE 8/17/11: This blog post has been updated to reflect the transfer of content from our old Facebook Group “Revive the Art of Personal Note Writing!” to this Heartspoken blog. I now have a “Notewriting” category that will include content, encouragement, and resources to Revive the Art of Personal Notewriting! The personal note or letter [...]

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